Living a productive and meaningful life is a balancing act. With the pressures of today’s demanding and high paced world, most people struggle to find a reasonable balance. We can easily be drawn away from our key priorities when one aspect of our life consumes the bulk of our time and attention.
To a large extent, balancing life priorities is much like walking a tightrope. When we drift too much in one direction, we become unbalanced. To sustain what we value most in our lives, we must constantly maintain a level of equilibrium. Otherwise, we run the risk of losing the things that enrich and fulfill who and what we are.
Here are some useful techniques to help you better balance your life priorities.
(1) Explore your options.
Determine the priorities that give you the greatest sense of purpose, meaning, and self-fulfillment.
Take time to define what you consider to be your top priorities in life. Start the process by focusing on facets of your mental and physical well-being, relationships with others, dreams and desires, lifelong learning, spiritual growth, and financial security.
Choose priorities that are relevant, achievable, and rewarding. Create a list of your top ones and post it in a place that you can easily access.
(2) Manage your schedule.
Plan out and execute daily activities that include your priorities.
You have a finite amount of time and energy in any one given day, so careful planning is required. Within the framework of your daily responsibilities, map out what you can realistically accomplish to achieve your priorities. Strategize critical steps, including the when, where, what, and how.
For example… If one priority is to care for your father with Alzheimer’s, how can you achieve this goal while working full-time and taking care of a home with two teenage daughters? What specific steps might you employ to balance your efforts without losing sight of your own personal needs?
(3) Keep on track.
Evaluate your progress.
Take time to periodically assess how well you are carrying out your priorities. Acknowledge your accomplishments and areas in need of improvement. If you continue to feel unbalanced, be willing to adjust your priorities or implementation strategies to bring you back into alignment. As your priorities change, alter your implementation plan to sustain your balance. This will be an ongoing process if you wish to keep moving forward.
(4) Stand your ground.
Preserve your right to have and maintain your priorities.
You own your priorities and how they balance your life. No one else can determine what is best for you even when they may try. Be prepared to walk away from difficult situations and to say no to unreasonable requests that ultimately compromise your balance. Consider it a personal victory when you have the strength and courage to protect what is important to you. Don’t relinquish your power to the unreasonable demands of others.
(5) Care for you.
Allow yourself time each day to center yourself.
An essential part of balancing your life is to take time for yourself. Make it a daily habit to spend some quiet time during your day to relax and let go. Turn off your cell and other distractions and just check out for even a short period of time.
The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule but to schedule your priorities. – Stephen Covey
Written by: Patricia K. Flanigan, Smart Strategies for Successful Living
Patricia K. Flanigan is a vibrant and passionate advocate for quality living and aging. She has dedicated over 28 years to working in higher education, but now enjoys a more peaceful lifestyle as the founding director and writer of Smart Strategies for Successful Living. In her free-time, she cherishes spending quality time with her family and friends, as well as getting out into nature with her beloved Samoyed dog, Wylie. Patricia loves helping others age gracefully and shares her wisdom through her content to promote the ultimate success in living.
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